By local celebrant Jacqueline Dee
2020 may be a year that many would rather forget, but for me it was a game-changer in all the right ways. Resigning from my 15-year career as a family counsellor to pursue my dreams as a full-time celebrant has been all and more than I’d hoped for.
As a counsellor I’ve loved working with couples and families. As a celebrant I get to do just that, but in a different capacity. Now in my fourth year as an Authorised Marriage Celebrant, I especially enjoy the work of preparing and creating ceremonies; the joyful marriage ceremonies and the heartfelt end-of-life ceremonies.
In my role as a funeral celebrant, I find it such a privilege to sit with families in that space of grief as a non-anxious presence, as they reflect on the life and memories they shared with their loved one.
To assist them in preparing a ceremony that honours their loved one in the most meaningful and respectful of ways is hugely rewarding work.
Challenges of Covid
Even through the difficulties of 2020 with Covid restrictions preventing many family members from attending services, live-streaming was made available. I think the funeral industry has been very responsive in this way and I applaud them for that. While not quite the same as being there in person, a live-streaming service ensures that people feel present and can be directly acknowledged during the ceremony.
I’ve also had the privilege of working with Helensburgh families, which has been very special. I’m writing a program to support families in understanding more about grief and loss, and I hope to make this available online later this year.
Weddings ahead
This year is shaping up to be a ‘super’ year for weddings due to the many 2020 postponements. There’s a real wonderful buzz back in the industry with vendors filling their bookings. The pandemic has hit musicians especially hard, not just financially, but mentally and emotionally. I really want to see them back on their feet and I truly hope we can see dance-floors packed again soon.
A welcome surprise
There was another very welcome surprise for me in 2020: I was awarded a Highly Commended in the Brides Choice Awards (Illawarra/Southern Highlands). That recognition provided greater confirmation for me that I’m exactly where I’m meant to be right now.
We are so blessed here to have so many stunning wedding venues. Please get in touch if I can be of assistance with any of your celebrant needs: weddings, funerals, naming days, renewal of vow ceremonies. Love, light and peace.
