By Jackie Carroll, a Registered Nurse at Equilibrium Healthcare in Helensburgh

Dyad care considers treating the birth parent and newborn as one unit. However, there is a new movement that recognises the partner as a vital component to a flourishing, healthy baby. I believe we should change the language from dyad to ‘triad’ to establish three people within this unit, including the partner, and provide appropriate care for all.

Setting up this same collaborative, support system within breastfeeding could possibly be the key to success for struggling mothers.

When the demands of breastfeeding exceed the capacity of the mother to effectively provide for her infant, we can rely on the partner to provide supportive action.

Below are my top five tips to support “Mother Infant Triad”:

1. Understand the uniqueness of breastfeeding

There is no one size fits all when it comes to breastfeeding. Work with your partner to develop your own unique feeding pattern that meets mother and infant needs. For example, some mothers breastfeed one side at a time, others may switch sides during feeds.

2. Nutrition-based support

Our partners may not be able to feed the baby but creating a colourful plate for the mother to eat is imperative to support lactation.

3. Psychological support

Be positive and enthusiastic. Complimenting her efforts, skills and ability will be extremely comforting.

4. Learn more

Understand your baby's awake times, as well as hungry and tired cues so you can facilitate smooth transitions for the mother.

5. Go above and beyond

Keep the love alive. Bring her a treat (without her asking), offer kisses and cuddles when she needs and don’t push the physical stuff. It will come in time.

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